Community Portrait by Rob Gonsalves.
parenting done right
Never not reblog Morticia Addams
I love the expression on her face in the last one. “Can you believe she was going to use such a small blade?”
How the world sees America.
Shit happened to Ferguson is happening in Hong Kong right now!
Students were just protesting peacefully for genuine democracy around Admiralty and Central, yet the police force used pepper spray, tear gas and violence to disperse the crowd. According to the protesters, the police even raided a first aid booth with pepper spray.
grinch keeps it real
Anonymous said: I think it's awesome that you are able to maintain a relationship and a career in pornography. Really, it must take a lot of trust between the two of you, so good on both of you!
Thank you for being well-intentioned, but this… is a kind of problematic message.
Because it shows the disturbing trend of the often-perpetuated idea that sex workers are untrustworthy. That we can’t maintain a relationship or that it requires EXTRA trust on the part of the sex worker’s partner in order for the relationship to work.
I don’t think we have any more trust in our relationship than any other healthy relationship (because the only healthy relationships that exist involve trust). The only difference is that we kick it up a notch and aren’t threatened by my clients.
I know a client won’t sweep me off my feet with gifts or large purchases. He knows that people can’t buy my love. That’s it. And to me that’s not trust per say. To me that’s just basic understanding of your partner’s mentality.
Some people can have their affection and love “bought.” Those are the relationships that will fail. And there’s nothing WRONG with that. Everyone’s emotions exist on a different plane and manifest differently within their relationship.
But there’s nothing extraordinary about a sex worker being able to maintain a relationship. Most sex workers I know/follow have a partner or have had a partner while being a sex worker.
So again, the level of trust in this relationship is no greater than any other healthy relationship I’ve had in the past. We know one another well enough to be secure in our relationship. We communicate. But again, these are hallmarks of healthy relationships in general, nothing extraordinary about us. I’m a sex worker with a boyfriend. Big whoop. So what? It’s a common thing (at least among online sex workers, I can’t speak for others).
trust is ridiculous stupid notion to begin with that only work with monogamy ideology that was invent by brunch of people who hope to cut your caress supply
trust is an natural Illusion, problem is this is what led people to willing to overlook the natural(aka real) YOU
YAS SRSLY WTF
Ringo the Rescued Raccoon Play Wrestles with His Best Friend, Rock the Coon Dog ** video **
Not the heroes we thought we needed but the heroes we really needed all along
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